We got married. Then he came out as bi. Now what?
It’s the gayest episode of Life Hax yet!
This week, Shane and Carolyn are tackling your tricky questions about coming out and dealing with difficult conversations about sexuality. Is it wrong to keep your sexuality a secret from your wife? Do you have to invite your homophobic parents to your wedding? And how do you get an older male relative to stop harassing young waitresses? Tune in to find out what Carolyn and Shane have to say to this week’s letter writers.
00:00 Welcome to Life Hax
01:23 I went on my honeymoon. Then my husband came out as bisexual. What now?
04:50 Bisexuality 101
07:10 Did this husband need to tell his wife sooner?
08:43 Mixed-orientation couples
09:30 “I found out my husband’s gay. Why not? Let’s stick with it.”
12:09 Looking back on the honeymoon, wedding, courtship with a different lens
13:40 The Kinsey scale
15:45 Did this husband have to come out at all?
19:07 What’s the criteria for trusting someone?
21:00 Do I have to invite my homophobic parents to my wedding?
24:05 My family thinks my fiancé is gay. He isn’t.
28:15 My elderly father thinks young women are flirting with him. I’m afraid they think he’s sexually harassing them. Should I tell him?
31:40 How do I ask my in-laws to not speak with their mouths full at meals?
34:00 Action items!
