My mom feels critiqued whenever I make different parenting decisions than she did. What should I do?
A mother’s feelings are constantly hurt by things she shouldn’t be taking personally — specifically, her daughter’s own parenting decisions. What should this letter-writer do?
“I don’t know if you can lie about everything you’re doing,” Shane O’Neill notes. “But I think there’s something there…” Check out more of his and Carolyn Hax’s advice on their new show, Life Hax, wherever you get podcasts.

